About Russ

Russ & Sharon Peterson started Growing Marriages in 2005 to provide information and resources for couples looking to build healthy, growing marriages. They are active in their local church marriage ministry and provide mentoring for couples interested in preparing for, enriching, or repairing their marriage. They have three adult children and six grandchildren and reside in sunny Colorado Springs, Colorado.

Building Intimacy With Your Husband

Okay ladies, its your turn to get some tips on how to build more intimacy with your husband. Men and women have known for years that they are fundamentally different. They think differently, process information differently, and have different needs and desires. But its been just in the last several years—and is still taking place—that groundbreaking scientific research has validated [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:08:58-05:00July 1, 2008|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Building Intimacy With Your Wife

As promised, this month's post talks about how husbands can build more intimacy with their wife. Obviously, not all these tips will apply to every woman, but they have been drawn from research done by respected authors and professionals in the field of psychology and marriage relationships and are a good representation of what women need to have a more [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:10:33-05:00June 1, 2008|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Drifting in Your Marriage or Connected?

Sometimes the greatest threat to our marriage relationship is just living—that is, the routine of everyday life. We are so wrapped up in our jobs, our kids, our laundry, our bills, our TV shows...our life, that we just naturally drift apart. We lose the intimacy—the connection—to our spouse, and if we are not careful we'll find ourselves replacing that void [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:12:20-05:00May 1, 2008|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

6 Keys to a Better Marriage Today

Spring is in the air...or at least the promise of Spring. The weather is warming up, the birds are starting to chirp again, and baseball is underway. There's something about Spring that brings anticipation—new opportunities, new hope, new life. We tend to feel more optimistic about life in general. Now is a great time to examine your relationship. Whether you [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:13:45-05:00April 1, 2008|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Why Dating Your Spouse is Good for the Whole Family

Have you ever looked at your spouse and felt distant, detached, or indifferent? You're not angry or upset with them, there's just no spark, no excitement, no deep connection. Sharon and I found ourselves in that place recently. Sometimes the routine of life with all its responsibilities dulls our intimacy with one another. If you don't make a concerted [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:52:55-05:00March 1, 2008|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Mastering the Art of Apologizing

This month we are looking at the importance of apologizing and restoring relationships. I can't over-emphasize how important mastering this skill will be to maintaining your healthy relationship. If your married, you know that its not a question of if your spouse will hurt you, its when. Its the people we are closest to that can hurt us the most—that's [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:15:56-05:00February 1, 2008|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Dealing with the Five Most Common Ways Couples Disagree About Money

We hope you experienced a joyful, and meaningful Christmas shared by family and friends. Maybe you were able to watch some Christmas movies or take in a special celebration at your church. Perhaps you baked cookies and treats, or attended a Christmas party (or several). No doubt you spent many hours in line (or online) purchasing gifts for that special [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:19:26-05:00January 1, 2008|Marriage & Finances|0 Comments

10 Tips to Help You Get Ready for the Holidays

We've finally finished up the leftovers from our Thanksgiving feast and already we are wrapped up in anticipation of what lies ahead—Christmas! We really enjoy this time of year and have several family traditions that make it special for our whole family. We already have our tree up, because we go as a family to cut it down the day [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:21:26-05:00December 1, 2007|Real Life|0 Comments

How Gratitude Brings Hope and Healing to Our Lives

When November rolls around, we start thinking of all that we are thankful for. In today’s world, this topic is not very popular. When it comes to our relationship with our spouses, we sometimes forget about thankfulness. It is a simple expression and will bring much joy to those on the receiving end of our gratefulness. When I (Sharon), remember to say thanks to [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:22:38-05:00November 1, 2007|Marriage Enrichment|0 Comments

Exploring Your Emotional Baggage

This month's article may be uncomfortable or even painful for some of us to read, but I urge you to read it anyway. All of us have "baggage", those unpleasant—and sometimes horrific—events that make up our personal history. But they need not make up our future. No matter what past baggage you carry, you can be free from its load, [...]

By |2023-04-03T11:23:38-05:00October 1, 2007|Help & Healing|0 Comments
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